Hmmm, in brief, okay: How did you come to Buddhism? - We understood Dukkha exists in the world.
Has your spiritual development been a gradual development or has there been any turning points? - Both.
How much have you changed and how has that affected your relationship? How much have we changed? Heaps. How has that affected our relationship? It made it better.
Did you both change at the same time in the same way or were there times when you grew apart for a while? Left foot, right foot. When you walk, does your left foot always stay in front? It does take turns, doesn't it? Rosemary and I have taken turns. Being in front, being behind, being lost for a little, being smart, taking turns. Good friends will take turns.