Question
I have friends who often like to eat at restaurants with live seafood displayed, which later becomes one's dinner. When accompanying these friends, can you suggest how to wisely handle this situation, or is it more skillful to avoid those restaurants?
Answer
Personally, I would rather avoid those restaurants. Perhaps you can suggest to your friends a different place to go. If it's very disturbing, and you have to be there, you might decide to order spaghetti.