Question
Sometimes during a compassion/lovingkindness wish I notice a feeling of finding the exercise slightly arrogant or "overlooking" on others, wishing them to be able to learn what they wouldn’t know yet – but what we do. There must be other ways of overcoming life’s difficulties than the one we practice. Usually I go around this feeling by telling me it is not only about the technique as such, but about the way, which I wish them to find to grow beyond their limitations. Would it be better in that case to adapt slightly the wording?